Good questions to ask when you are dating
How do you deal with people in your life that you don’t like? What’s the funniest thing that happened in your childhood?
What actor would play you in a movie about your life?
Just be sure to choose a game you're sure to win or tie, or you may find yourself doing all the talking.
Once upon a time, people actually met in real life to date.
of The Couples Institute, recommends playing Twenty Questions with your partner because "They [questions] allow you to discover or rediscover who your partner is." By developing a deeper understanding of your partner's mind and spirit, you could find yourself more deeply in love.
By encouraging people to tell stories about themselves, you not only learn about their history but also about them from the way they talk about their lives.
These questions are designed to spark the imagination of the person and drift off into speculation.
There aren't really any right or wrong answers; again, the way these questions are answered tell you more about a person than the answers themselves.
You meet up with someone to make small talk for a few hours hoping to convince them that you are a fascinating, charming person. If you didn’t have to worry about money or a job, where would you live in the world? What was the last book that you got so absorbed in that you couldn’t put it down? You only get 3 words to describe yourself – what are they? Which is better to listen to – your heart or your brain? A foolproof way to ensure that conversation will always be flowing is to simply your date things, although—given the fact that we never know how comfortable others are with casual conversation—that might be easier said than done. Where exactly do you live in [insert your city or town here]? Questions over the first drink should be an equal mix of inquisitive and casual, and should allow you to start gauging his or her true personality.
The trick to successfully vetting a prospect on a first date, while simultaneously keeping the energy light and fun, is knowing what questions to ask and how to ask them. What are their likes and dislikes, what do you have in common, what does he or she do in their spare time?
I know, what an odd and foreign concept…Dating apps have become the norm among Gen-Yers.